Sexy Couples Check Out These 7 Sexy Tips To Spice Up Your Relationship

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When two people start dating everything seems so new and exciting. You’re getting to know one another, spend a lot of time together, have fun, and make memories. Although we’d like those moments to last forever, the reality is much different.

As relationship evolves from one stage to another, the risk of monotony increases* and it’s followed by the reduced* frequency of intercourse and decreased* satisfaction with your romance. Even though this scenario is very common, it doesn’t have to be like that.

You can keep your relationship sexy, fun, and exciting even if you two have been together for years. These seven tips will help you spice things up.

#1 Be Positive…

Not just positive affirmations. Being positive is about showing your “awesomeness” to whoever comes across your path. Bring funny, positive thoughts and feelings to ALL life situations; you create an amazing experience for those around YOU! The people in your life just want more of you again and again. Yes, they will want to drink your cool-aid!

My mama always said (wise women our Mama’s)… “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all!”

So here’s what I propose, if you cannot be positive, stay home! OR if you choose to leave the house… * Remind yourself just how beautifully amazing you are * Be grateful for the loved ones in your life * Celebrate ALL the wins that you have achieved, big or small * Be Present (get off your mobile phone, look into the eyes of the person opposite you and listen) * Build excitement with whatever you are doing, feeling and creating, which is laying a foundation of positive experiences & much more to come *Saving the best for last, go and make love like a rock star to your significant other!!!

#2 Keep the Romance & Spontaneity

Keep the Romance & Spontaneity

Sometimes being with a partner for a long time, we can often take our ‘significant other’ for granted, it’s so, so important not to lose* the romance & spontaneity in our relationship.

Romance involves consistent actions that remind your Lover you think about them often, either by writing poems, sexing, writing a song, handwrite a love letter … now that’s old school! Sending flowers to your Lover at their workplace or office, buying their “love food” (yes we mammals have a love food), again it shows that you think about them and wuv (yep that’s a word) them…

Beware when buying gifts or expressing our feelings you are doing it ‘just because you love them. So be Spontaneous! Organize a date night that involves thought, organize the kids with a sitter, and get your maintenance waxing done …yep men too!

By doing those little things it will add variety to your Love life & speaks volumes!

#3 Inspire Each Other Give it a go!

One of the things I love about relationships, in our friendships, business or sexual relationships, it is all about giving & receiving…

Now in the Lovers relationship realm, when two people are together, it’s imperative that inspiration flows freely, offering a support base for each person’s Life work, by sharing, growing & nurturing each other. Creative juices are created in and out of your active sex life!

Inspire Each Other Give it a go

#4 Stay Active Together

Obviously, sex isn’t the only physical activity you & your partner can do together, staying active & engaging with each other is a gift for both parties involved.

Carry on with your existing hobbies you already do, however, ask yourself, what else can we do together that’s new & exciting? Perhaps take Kizomba dance classes together, or learn to cook Thai food together, play squash or tennis… healthy competition is fantastic in your relationship!

…And remember, “Those who play together stay together”.

#5 Laugh Together

My all-time favourite & one of my personal values is… Laughter! Humour can go a long way; it will also diffuse tension & add some spice to your love life up.

Yes, yes the serious matters need to be respected & addressed calmly, however ask yourself if you didn’t take the “LITTLE BATTLES” SO PERSONALLY, (WET TOWEL LEFT ON THE BEDROOM FLOOR) so personally, just imagine how happy your disposition would be AND how regular your smoking hot lovemaking life would be!

LAUGH, with the ones you LOVE!

Laugh Together

#6 Love Yourself Make Today The First Day Of YOUR Choosing!

It’s up to you how you feel about yourself, only you can allow yourself to ‘take on’ other peoples beliefs on how they perceive you, and/or your own limiting beliefs.

Of course, it may hurt a little… Ask yourself, what if “I took my emotions out of the mix & look at it rationally”…. oh what a difference that will make, and apply that to your significant other who’s your best friend, confidant and yeah baby, your Lover.

Love yourself! The most important person is YOU.

#7 Stay Stimulated Together…

Stay Stimulated Together

Intellectually think about what makes a man or woman simply irresistible?
Yes, yes being aesthetically appealing can hit your sexual hot spots, however when a man loves a woman for MORE than her pretty face, breasts & ass… that is HOT!!

Have expanded self-awareness what’s going on around you, read books, watch documentaries, go to art galleries, concerts by doing these activities together or with friends, you have built memories together.

Learning, growing & inspiring each other is another benefit to add to your already nurturing relationship & if it’s not … Start today!

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Contributor : Patty-Ann Waho (Consumer Health Digest)

Patty-Ann Waho is a Sex-Life & Intimacy Educator and Mama to four Kings (sons). New Zealand born,but now residing in Australia. Having been in emotionally and physically abusive relationships has made it her life's mission to educate the art of self-love, self-awareness and self-confidence, guiding her clients how to make enlightened and educated choices in their own sexual & sensual relationships. Certified Practitioner of NLP, Deep State Re-patterning. Professional Workshop Development, Delivery & Facilitation. Tantra Practitioner in-training with Tantric Alchemy. Creator & Performer of the Vajayjay diaries Live Shows & Playshops. For More Visit: www.pattyannwaho.com & www.vajayjaydiaries.com And Follow her on - Facebook & Twitter

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