9 Best Time for Sex to Reignite the Spark in Your Sex Life

Nine Best Times to Have Sex for Truly Satisfying Sexual Life
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Women often hear that some of the most exciting and satisfying sex is usually unplanned. There is just something different about having spontaneous intercourse with your partner. Whether it is the surprise that adds the extra thrill to sudden sex or something different, almost all couples will mention spontaneous sex as their most exciting sexual moment.
What many women may not know is that the right time can make a difference in their sex life. Just like timing is important when a woman is attempting to become pregnant, there are certain times when sexual intercourse will be better as well. Just like planning your day, many relationship experts are now recommending that some couples start scheduling their sex life.

A Schedule for a Satisfying Sex Life

There are actually nine times out of the year when you and your partner can experience some of the most intensely satisfying sex. While this is not saying that there aren’t other times, it seems that these particular days bring something special to an intimate moment. Here are the nine best times to have intercourse for a truly satisfying sexual life.

  • The best time for a mind blowing orgasm may surprise some women, and make others nervous. Studies have shown that the day before a woman starts her menstrual period, is when her labia and clitoris are the most sensitive. This is generally due to the excess fluid that they can contain the day before her period starts. A woman’s uterus is also heavier during this time, which can make it easier for her to feel the contractions from an orgasm.
  • Women who want sexual intercourse to last longer will look forward to the time between Christmas and New Year Day. This is when both partners are normally on vacation from work, and many of the normal stress of daily life is temporarily put on hold. Another key to having long lasting sex is for couples to take their time. Take an afternoon to flirt with each other, and let the excitement build up into the evening.
  • The ideal time to please a man is usually in the morning. Most men already wake up with an erection, so part of the work is already done. By setting an alarm ten minutes early, both partners can have an enjoyable start to a work day. Another tip for women to consider is that as they age, women are also more easily aroused in the morning.
  • Some women have found that having sex during their periods can help to relieve some of the cramps that are associated with this time of the month. When a woman has an orgasm her body releases oxytocin and dopamine. Both of these can help to ease cramping and cause women to feel relaxed and happy. This will only work if the woman is comfortable being intimate while she is on her monthly period.
  • Women who want to feel more confident in bed, are turning to exercise to help build their self-esteem levels. Research has shown that women who exercise regularly, even if they are not losing weight, are more confident than women who are not active. With a higher level of self-esteem, many women are finding that they are more confident during sexual intercourse with their partners.
  • Any woman who is looking to have hot and steamy, anything goes sex should plan on months like July and August. These are normally the hottest months, and the best time to make use of some private outdoor spaces. Even moving from the bedroom to outside, can add a new level of excitement and the hot weather will only make the sex steamier.
  • Trying to have great sex when both partners are working can be next to impossible, but many women are solving this problem by scheduling a date night. Normally the date will be on the weekend, but the only consideration is that it should be on a day when both partners are off. That way everyone will be relaxed and able to fully appreciate their time together. Research has shown that the more relaxed a couple is, the more intense their sex life usually is.
  • Some long term couples can suffer from a slightly boring sex life, with one position being the normal one. One of the keys to a happy, and long lasting relationship is for both partners to be sexually satisfied. Try using a different sex position, or set an alarm for the middle of the night to surprise him by suddenly straddling him on top. A little bit of variety can go a long ways toward adding some spice to anyone’s sex life.
  • There are certain times of the year when couples can begin to be overwhelmed by weddings. These celebrations normally tire couples out, or leave them too intoxicated to perform sexually. Some couples are discovering the excitement in having sexual intercourse before going to the wedding. Not only is it exciting for couples to renew their commitments to each other in this personal way, it can also help to make longer wedding ceremonies go by just a little quicker.

Conclusion

While the best times to have sexual intercourse always depends on each individual, these nine times can be used as a good starting point. No matter how strong a relationship might be, it can always benefit by exciting and satisfying sex.

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Expert Author : Mark Simms (Consumer Health Digest)

Mark Simms is a prolific freelance health and beauty writer, independent researcher with a long history and expertise of providing reliable and relatable health content for magazines, newsletters, websites including blogs and journals. He also enjoy exploring men’s and women’s health category writing articles about sex and relationships, product review and providing information on sexual health.