What Should I Do with His Balls During Oral Sex?

His balls during oral sex
Q: My boyfriend recently asked me to pay more attention to his balls when I give him a blow job. I do play with them, but I think he wants me to suck them, too. I’ve never heard of this. Do you have any advice?
Expert Answer

It is a question that women frequently ask themselves and even each other, what to do with a man’s testes or balls during oral sex. It is also a question that many men are wishing women would simply ask them. There is no one better to ask than a man when it comes to what feels good to them, and more importantly what gets them sexually aroused, but many women are too shy or embarrassed to address this sensitive subject so here are a few tips on what to do with his balls during oral sex.

Things to do with his balls during oral sex

1. Men Enjoy Foreplay

It is a well-known medical fact that it can take women longer to become sexually aroused, and foreplay is a necessary part of a satisfying sexual relationship. What many women do not realize is that men can enjoy and become aroused by sexual foreplay just like women, and many men wish that their partners would engage in this act before initiating sexual penetration. Before initiating oral sex, one important remind is that there is a difference between the scrotum and the testes and they both require different touches to keep him aroused and actively involved.

There are three main things to consider during oral sex when contemplating this extremely sensitive area, and if you are too embarrassed to find out his preferences, you can also learn by carefully watching his reactions.

2. Applying Pressure

Most men are extremely sensitive and protective when it comes to dealing with their scrotum, and especially with their balls. Often jokingly referred to as the “family jewels”, for many men this reference is remarkably apt.

3. Using Your Mouth

Some men enjoy gentle, teasing nips on their scrotum during oral sex, while other men prefer to have their testes gently sucked and licked. The mouth and tongue can also be used to slowly lick around the base of his penis back towards the perineum. How the mouth and tongue are used depends on the amount of pressure he enjoys being applied to this area.

4. Hands

How much pressure he enjoys will also determine what you can do with your hands that will drive him wild. Some men prefer gently cupping and stoking this sensitive area, while other men enjoy a light tugging and a gentle rolling motion around the testes.

5. Putting the Tips in Action

There are three main things to remember before surprising him with amazing oral sex, with the most important being how much pressure he enjoys being applied to this sensitive area. Not only will playing with his balls bring him intense pleasure, he will also be more likely to return the favor when it is your turn.

Have him lie down on his back, and find a position that is comfortable for you but will still let you have some room to move. Begin by slowly licking and sucking on the shaft of his penis, until the member is erect. Now it is time to surprise him, by taking the tip of your tongue and swirling it around the loose skin on his scrotum. Next, pretend that his testes are the top of an ice cream cone and lightly apply pressure with your tongue as you lick them in long sweeping motions. Don’t concentrate on just one of his testes, make sure that you pay attention to both of them. One place that many women don’t know about, or ignore is the sensitive stripe of skin that is in the middle of the scrotum sac referred to as the raphe. This area is sure to bring him intense feelings of pleasure. After he is completely sexually aroused, switch back to his penis and continue with oral sex. Once again, the amount of pressure he enjoys being applied will vary greatly between men, so it is important to watch his reactions.

Final Words

While men may seem overprotective of this sensitive area, the truth is that they really wish their sexual partners would pay more attention to them. Just as it is hard for some women to know what to do with a man’s testes, many men do not how to ask their partners to play with them more. With some tips and some experimentation, any couple will not only know what to do with them, they will also know how to enjoy them.

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Contributor : Mark Simms (Consumer Health Digest)

Mark Simms is a prolific freelance health and beauty writer, independent researcher with a long history and expertise of providing reliable and relatable health content for magazines, newsletters, websites including blogs and journals. He also enjoy exploring men’s and women’s health category writing articles about sex and relationships, product review and providing information on sexual health.

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