Fantasies For Women While Masturbating: Is It Normal?

antasies For Women While Masturbating

It is a subject that is almost never discussed, but it is more common than what most women may think. It is not unusual for women to have sexual fantasies about other women while they are masturbating. This does not mean that they are gay or bisexual, it simply means that they can pleasure themselves while thinking about other women.

Understanding your Lesbian Fantasies

Many women worry about their sexuality if they masturbate while thinking about another woman, even if they are in a committed relationship with a man. While most people may believe that you only sexually fantasize about members of the opposite sex if you are heterosexual, the opposite couldn’t be farther from the truth.

There is actually no definite way to decide a person’s sexuality, instead it is a combination of what we are attracted to in a person.

The majority of sexual therapists and researchers now believe that a woman has to be both physically and romantically attracted to other women in order to be considered a lesbian. This means that a woman can be sexually aroused by another woman, but still be romantically attracted to men.

Lesbian Fantasies

Fantasies, Thoughts and Actions

Trying to determine and put a label on a person’s sexual orientation is extremely difficult in today’s society. It is not uncommon for some women to consider themselves heterosexual even after sexually exploring another woman. Young women away from college for the first time can often find themselves in new and exciting sexual situations.

This often involves experimenting sexually with other women. It is not only the younger women, but women of any age can have a brief sexual encounter with a member of the same sex. These encounters will not necessarily make them lesbians, and they can still be attracted to men.

The same is true for women who masturbate while thinking about other women. This does not mean that they are lesbians, or even bisexual it simply means that sometimes they are physically attracted to women. These women are frequently married or in long term relationships with men and their preferences for masturbating is simply an erotic fantasy.

Your Sexual Fantasies are Normal

What decides a person’s sexual orientation has been studied by several different researchers, physicians, and therapists with one idea in particular standing out. Dr. Alfred Kinsey has theorized that our sexuality is fluid and can easily change throughout our lives.

His studies are beginning to show that a person’s sexual preferences are different during certain points in their lives, and that it was normal for their fantasies to vary between the sexes.

If you are worried or embarrassed about your lesbian fantasies that you should realize that you are not the only person that has them, nor does it make you a lesbian. For some women, their fantasies of other girls when they are masturbating is simply a part of who they are.

Your sexual fantasies are your sub conscious way of exploring something you’ve been secretly interested in. It is a safe way to explore your desire for another woman without having to act on something you may not be comfortable with.

Your fantasies are also a great way for you to escape from the stress of everyday life, and try something exciting and new. For some women it is only the thought of doing something that others might consider taboo sexually stimulating, while others may simply wonder what another woman would feel like lying next to them.

Enjoy your Lesbian Fantasies

There is nothing wrong with having fantasies about other women, and it does not mean that you are bisexual or a lesbian. What it does mean is that you are comfortable with your sexual fantasies and are able to stimulate yourself to a female orgasm.

Some researchers believe that since the brain does play an important part in the different stages of sexual desire, it can help a woman climax faster.

Your fantasies are an important part of having a healthy sex life, but they do not define your sexual orientation. Whether you only fantasy about men, women, or a combination of both, it is perfectly normal. A healthy and satisfying sexual life includes being comfortable with yourself, your partner and your fantasies and accepting them as a part of your sexual identity.

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Contributor : Mark Simms (Consumer Health Digest)

Mark Simms is a prolific freelance health and beauty writer, independent researcher with a long history and expertise of providing reliable and relatable health content for magazines, newsletters, websites including blogs and journals. He also enjoy exploring men’s and women’s health category writing articles about sex and relationships, product review and providing information on sexual health.

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