Updated: 2019, Jun 12

Anal Sex: Tips to Have The Wild Sex She Craves

The Latest Craze in American Bedrooms

Sex has long been a taboo subject, rarely discussed even among couples. What is even less commonly discussed is the subject of anal sex. It was something that couples did not admit to participating in, or even fantasizing about.

In the last few years though, researchers have been noticing a steady increase in the number of couples willing to admit that they have either thought about or engaged in anal sex.

There are many reasons why anal sex is the latest craze in American bedrooms, not the least of which is the enjoyment and pleasure many couples feel.

Why Anal Sex is The Latest Craze in American Bedrooms?

Anal sex provides a completely different set of feelings during orgasms for both partners. Not only are the pleasurable sensations different, anal sex can also help enhance a couple’s sense of intimacy.

Many researchers believe that this is due to the lingering sense that the couple is participating in a forbidden act while they are engaged in anal sex.

Some couples are turning to anal sex as an alternative to vaginal penetration. This can be due to a number of reasons, including health conditions.

Over 36% of women recently reported having anal sex at least once, and this increase can also be caused by society’s general acceptance that sexual intercourse is meant to be enjoyed. It is not an act to be performed only for procreation. Other contributing factors to the rise in anal activities in the bedroom also include easier access to pornography.

It is not only pornographic movies and magazines that are bringing anal sex to the forefront, but health magazines and health care professionals are all easily discussing this once taboo subject. The more often a couple is exposed to the once kinkier act of anal intercourse, the less strange and taboo it becomes.

Tips for Anal Sex

Tips for Anal Sex

With more couples willing to experiment with new sexual positions, anal sex has become less of a taboo subject and more of a normal and healthy sexual relationship. Over 44% of all heterosexual men admitted to engaging in anal sex.

While there is nothing wrong with engaging in this sexual position, it should only be done if both partners are comfortable. Here are some tips to help make anal sex more enjoyable for both partners.

  • With vaginal intercourse, the vagina normally becomes lubricated during the various stages of sexual arousal. When it does not, intercourse can become painful. Anal sex also requires lubrication. Not only will it make penetration easier, it will also be less painful, meaning both of you can begin to enjoy the pleasurable sensations.
  • Staying relaxed during anal sex is one of the most important things a woman can do. Not only it help to make the sexual act more pleasurable, it will also make it easier for him to enter into you.
  • When you and your partner are planning on having anal sex, it is important to take your time and enjoy each other. Just like during vaginal intercourse, it can take a woman longer to become sexually aroused.This is still important regardless of which sexual position a couple is in. Taking things slow can also help to ease some of the tension and apprehension that is often felt by couples engaging in anal sex for the first time.
  • What is perhaps the most important tip to remember is to always wash up after having anal intercourse. This is especially important for couples who also enjoy having vaginal intercourse immediately after anal sex.A woman’s vaginal area is a delicate mix of beneficial bacteria, when the bacterial levels are adjusted infections and other problems can occur.Washing directly after intercourse, along with never using the same condom twice can dramatically cut down on the risk of developing a vaginal infection.

Conclusion

Anal sex is as natural as vaginal intercourse. It is simply a different way for couples to give and experience pleasure. While it is not a new sexual position, it has only recently become a popular sexual position. Experimenting with different sexual positions and types of intercourse is part of a natural and healthy sexual life.

Before engaging in anal intercourse with a partner, always make sure that they are completely comfortable with it.

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Michael Wight

Michael Wight is a health enthusiast and blogger. He contributes to different websites in the health and fitness niche. He is a comp

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