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mid-life phenomenon known as menopause and the stresses
of anxiety go hand in hand. Panic attacks, rushes
of energy, burning in the chest, unusual vibrations
throughout the body, and warm sensations are some
of the physical effects you may feel under this condition.
When
menopause hits, there is a greater chance women will
go through anxiety and depression.
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Christian Northrop talks about this phenomenon in her book,
Wisdom of Menopause, where if a woman has repressed something
in her life, she won’t be able to get past menopause
employing the same tactics. For example, unexpressed anger
will find its way out and sometimes in unusual or uncomfortable
ways.
In what is often referred to as a ¨midlife crisis,¨
this time of life forces women to re-evaluate themselves
and the role(s) they play as they are getting older. And,
often times we are not comfortable with what we find. A
little voice in the back of our head is saying, “If
you don’t make changes now … you never will!”
Our hormonal imbalances (due to decreased estrogen levels)
can contribute to feelings of depression or make us feel
plain ‘indifference.’ Even if menopause isn’t
actually causing these conditions, it can heighten underlying
anxiety and bring it to the surface.
Anxiety
is an individual’s prolonged feeling of dread and
worry with no particular reason behind it. It’s uncomfortable
and causes stress particularly on the body. It can be triggered
by problems in everyday life like paying the bills and work.
Although worrying about these things for a normal person
has its ceiling of severity, menopausal women suffering
from anxiety tend to think about their problems excessively.
When
anxiety finally hits its highest peak, it is often called
a panic attack. Panic attacks are debilitating episodes
of fright and fear that include chest pains, fear of death,
and shaking. In what is called being ¨psychosocially¨
depressed, women have negative beliefs and attitudes in
regards to getting older, assuming unwanted roles such as
caretaker, and responding negatively to impatient husbands
who might demand sex.
Being
depressed during the duration of this condition has a lot
to do with their overall psychological well-being prior
to menopause. Women who have continuous anxiety and depression
beforehand are more likely to suffer worse cases of anxiety
during this latter phase of life. If life-long imbalances
have not been healed, menopause may exacerbate the situation.
We might feel unable to perform ¨female duties¨,
contributing to feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness.
Research has found that consistent regular physical activity
(i.e. exercise) before menopause has been scientifically
proven to lessen the possibility of anxiety symptoms during
this transition. It’s also helpful to avoid drinking
caffeine-loaded liquids, sleep deprivation, and stimulant
use.
Psychiatric
consultations are highly recommended for anxiety sufferers
under menopause. An experienced counsellor and/or therapist
can help us recover and evaluate our lives including healing
emotional imbalances. It is a great time to refocus our
attention toward new activities and roles. As is common
with anxiety, feelings of worthlessness, fright, and even
suicidal tendencies can occur. In this case, antidepressants
may be prescribed. Coping with all of the physical changes,
assuming new roles, possibly facing many of our fears for
the first time, and generally waking up to the fact that
¨life just isn’t what it used to be¨ are all
realizations that contribute to anxiety in older women.
In these times, it is important to maintain focus and concentrate
on the positive things in life. Although it can be hard,
it can be done.
Having
a plethora of life responsibilities and obligations during
menopause can create stress, and having an ´excess´
of this stress can cause adrenal fatigue. Anxiety in menopause
sufferers results from hormonal imbalances. In the menstrual
cycle, ovulation causes progesterone (which has soothing
effects on the mind and body) to be released. Irregular
cycles are grounds for anxiety build-up, as a result of
the lack of this ¨happy hormone.¨ All of these conditions
can be treated with alternative therapies such as natural
progesterone cream.
But
why do some women go through menopause and barely notice
a difference? One consensus among medical doctors theorizes
that it has a lot to do with women’s self-esteem and
self-confidence. One thing is for sure, if you are having
trouble with either of these, you’ll get a chance
to deal with them now. One thing menopause is great at,
and that is bringing out our unresolved issues. And we all
know how anxious that can make us.
About
The Author
Cathy
Taylor is a marketing consultant with over 25 years experience.
She specializes in internet marketing, strategy and plan
development, as well as management of communications and
public relations programs for small business sectors. She
can be reached at Creative Communications: creative--com@cox.net
or by visiting www.EverythingMenopause.com
or www.internet-marketing-small-business.com
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