You
could try one of the many sexual enhancement drugs
available today. You could sign up for very expensive
workshops and retreats. You could even strip down
and pole dance for your partner.
My
guess is that these things just aren't your style.
I believe that you're seeking natural and balanced
healing for your sexdrive and your overweight body.
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You're
tired, your energy is low and you aren't feeling quite like
you think you should. You don't have unrealistic expectations.
You do have some dreams you've hung onto despite your physical
size. You've clung to them, knowing that some day those
dreams would take you to a place inside you where you were
finally ready to take control.
Welcome
to your life. A life that will continue to grow more healthy,
from here on. Once you embark on a journey of self-discovery
and empowerment, you can never plead ignorance again. You
can never say..."I didn't know".
Your
sex drive does not need to take a complete dive while you're
in the process of losing weight. That extra weight does
not have to be like carrying heavy sacks of spuds around.
It doesn't have to tire you out.
Simple
things you can do to help energize you and lighten the load
include the following suggestions.
1.You can make sure your daily food intake contains the
highest possible raw content you can achieve up to about
80%. For now, to go much higher is a path you can move
into. Keep the raw fruits and veggies separate and your
energy level will steadily climb. Your body WILL respond
to what you feed it. It has no choice, chemically speaking.
2.
Step in place for ten minutes. Hardly a spit in the ocean
of time in your day. Get up and do this for yourself.
I promise your Self will love you for it. Walk around
the block or walk in place. Preferably outside and breathing
with a full inhale/exhale. The more you move, the more
you’ll be able to move both in your live and in
your love life. You don’t want your partner to have
to do all the work do you? Keep your eye on the prize.
It’s your dream. You CAN make it happen!
3.
Make the choice to work at your sex life. Most especially
if you and your partner have been together a long time.
Sometimes things just need sprucing up. If you feel too
overweight to feel sexy, try splitting a bottle of pleasant
red wine. Put on something nice and enhance the mood of
your room. Work at it. Overweight, underweight or just
perfect, people have to make the effort to keep the sexual
tension alive.
4.
Tend to your physical appearance. Sometimes in our daily
lives, we forget to take a moment to add the little touches
that we used to do daily. Trim those stray hairs or apply
that bit of lipstick. Small things can enhance your appearance
and the way you walk, adding confidence to your style.
When we take care of ourselves, we stand taller and feel
better about ourselves.
5.
Don’t let life get in the way of preserving the
passion and fire you and your partner once had. Don’t
let the pounds you’re in the process of losing,
discourage you from feeling just as sexy as you did. You’ll
get there again and when you do, you’ll still have
your mate. The one you fell in love with. Don’t
let anything get in the way. Schedule dates with your
mate and make the effort.
We
have all sorts of obstacles in life and each one can seem
insurmountable at the time. Later, we can see each in perspective
and sometimes even with humor. Don’t let tomorrow’s
comic relief get you down today. Do something about
your sex life and the drive will take care of itself.
About
The Author
JLee
Davis has been writing since high school. Through marriage
and kids, ill-health and regaining it, she's kept on writing.
After over thirty years, she's finding that the best things
in life really are there for the taking. Sharing her motivation
is one way she has of "paying it forward".
http://www.dietforanewyou.com/
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