6
Ways to Slow Down the Adult ADD Brain
by Jennifer Koretsky
| If
you have adult ADD, then you know that sometimes, slowing
down is a very hard thing to do. There are so many tasks
to accomplish and so little time to get them done. So your
mind goes into high speed, trying to accomplish it all and
more, or worrying about the fact that it seems impossible
to get it all done. As a result, you spend a lot of time
stressing, and very little time enjoying life.
While
slowing down is a difficult skill to build, it can be done.
Here are 6 proven ways to slow down the adult ADD brain: |
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1.
Leave Work
Set your business hours and stick to them! Although sometimes
it's necessary to work late, don't do it unless you absolutely
have to! You'll work more efficiently during the day when the
time you have to accomplish your tasks is limited. And take weekends
off (or at least 2 days a week)! You deserve it.
2.
Plan a Night Out with Others
Nothing is more fun than a night out with people you like. This
could be coworkers, friends, family, or members of a group you
belong to. Enjoy yourself.
3.
Make a Weekly Commitment (Like Taking a Class or Participating
in a Group)
Get an excuse to get out of the house and out of the office every
week! Take a class, preferably learning something you always wanted
to know how to do. Make sure you *pay* for the class in advance
so you won't be tempted to skip it!
4.
Journal
Journaling forces you to stop, reflect and process. It helps you
manage stress and gain clarity. Make the decision to do it every
day - even if it's just for 10 minutes! Don't worry about grammar,
spelling, punctuation, or flow because no one else ever has to
see it.
5.
Meditate
There are many different ways to meditate, but I prefer mindfulness
meditation. Mindfulness meditation is simply the act of being
in the present moment - whether you are working, walking, or doing
the dishes! Try to keep your mind in the moment, and don't follow
stressful or worrisome thoughts when they arise. It's okay to
begin slowly by doing 5 minutes of mindful meditation a day, and
then building on your practice as you become more comfortable.
6.
Turn off Your Computer 2 Hours Before Bed
Computers are quite stimulating, especially for ADDers. Oftentimes,
you'll find yourself sitting at your computer at 3 o'clock in
the morning totally engrossed in researching something completely
random. You just can't step away from it to go to sleep, and that's
because the computer wakes up your brain. Turn the computer off
two hours before bed in order to properly wind down, and slow
down, at night.
About
the Author
Jennifer
Koretsky is a Professional ADD Management Coach who helps adults
manage their ADD and move forward in life. She encourages clients
to increase self-awareness, focus on strengths and talents, and
create realistic action plans. She offers a 90-day intensive skill-building
program, workshops, and private coaching. Her work has been featured
in numerous media, including The New York Times Magazine and The
Times (UK). To subscribe to Jennifer's free email newsletter,
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